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  Jayson and Ellen delve into the complex relationship between teens, screens, and mental health. Is it okay to use screens to help kids calm down? Are teens becoming more anxious? At what age should children have their own cell phones? What societal changes are needed to protect the mental health and well-being of children and teens? How can you effectively implement boundaries at home? Tune in to find the answers to these and many more questions. Useful Links:                                       …

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We entered one of our former churches with hope and anticipation. My husband was excited because they needed a new vision and direction, and he clearly knew where he wanted the church to go. I made friends with some women, and one invited me out for coffee. We became friends and started to talk openly with each other for some time.This seemed great until, suddenly, things went south. This woman broke my trust when I discovered she had talked to other people about me and shared the intimate things that I shared with her in conversations. I was devastated. I…

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I remember so clearly a dinner party I hosted where a newer friend showed up two hours late with two uninvited guests in tow. To make matters worse, they didn’t bring anything to contribute to the party. Needless to say, I never invited her to another party. I doubt she was ill-intentioned, rather, she was clueless on basic etiquette. She likely would have benefited from reading a list of what NOT TO DO during holiday gatherings and dinner parties. Here you go, you’re welcome. Holiday Etiquette: What NOT to do 1. Don’t bring uninvited guests. This might seem like a…

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Dear Sybersue, I have been living with my boyfriend for three years. During that time, he has continually checked out other women while in my presence, which is so embarrassing and disrespectful! I have mentioned my annoyance to him many times, and he just says, “What’s your problem? There’s no harm in looking at other women. Why are you being so insecure? You’re the one I come home to every day!” I’m unsure how much longer I can deal with his dismissive attitude or the sympathetic looks I get from the other women he is flirtatious with. I don’t know what…

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Do you wish you and your partner still communicated like you did when you first fell in love? In this episode, Jayson delves into the science of infatuation—why we experience it and why it fades. Can you rekindle the magic of the early days of your relationship, or is there something even better ahead? Tune in to discover how to earn your second honeymoon stage. Timestamps: 2:48 – Infatuation 6:16 – Falling out of love or working toward relational maturity? 9:49 – Learning how to communicate 13:48 – Earning your second honeymoon stage Links: Reignite your connection-communicate like you…

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We don’t typically think of prayer as a way to show a person that we appreciate them, but here’s the thing: prayer changes everything, especially our relationships. Prayer is our connection to the God who is love, the God who shows us what it means to love our spouse unconditionally. When you stay in tune with Him and bring to mind all the reasons you’re grateful God blessed you with your spouse, that heart of thanks will naturally guide how you interact with your partner. Note: it’s important to be specific here. Don’t simply breeze through a “Thanks for my spouse,…

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Something happens in your 40’s – a series of shifts cause you to do a double take on what actually matters in a partner and in friends. This may include: You choose to take care of a sick/aging parent More and more friends get cancer You lose someone you love – due to death, mental illness or simply growing apart You see friends getting divorced You get an autoimmune disease or some health issue that restricts your old way of life The generation after you makes fun of how you dress and you question if you’re now “old” You stop…

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Why do we often choose familiar yet unhealthy partnerships? Some of my clients have relayed their frustration with being unable to meet their potential partners because each encounter ends in another hurtful, and similar outcome. One of the big reasons for this is they become very attracted to a certain type. They keep going back for more of the same because it is what they know, and what they are initially attracted to! This is one of the big risks of staying in familiar environments that continue to tear down your self-worth. Some men and women are addicted to having…

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  In this episode, Jayson introduces three powerful trainings designed to transform your life and relationships. First, explore the Communication Breakthrough Experience, where hands-on demos and live coaching sessions help you overcome communication barriers and deepen your emotional connections. Next, learn about Relationship Coach Training, a program that empowers you to turn your passion for personal growth and relationships into a fulfilling career, making a meaningful impact on others. Finally, discover Couples Coach Training, a comprehensive 9-month journey that combines cutting-edge science and experiential therapies to equip you with the skills and confidence to coach couples effectively. Whether you’re seeking personal growth, a new career, or…

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As Christians, we often forget the differences between healing and reconciliation, especially when dealing with a narcissistic family member. This presents a particular problem during the fall and winter holiday seasons—particularly Thanksgiving and Christmas when families get together.Narcissists—especially clinical narcissists diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)—often thrive off exploiting weaknesses. Yes, they need our prayers. But they could also use our distance, so they cannot have more fuel for their fire.In today’s article, we’ll explore what the Bible says about narcissism, what it is exactly (what to look for), and how to deal with it within the family unit.What Are…

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